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 When I think of Christmas is a new compilation of
Christmas songs from Amy Grant and Vince Gill’s career. I am in love.

Coffee/pod

WOW! Listening to this talk really takes me back to the years when Larry and I were trying to navigate our blended family. Our communication was rough, to say the least. I remember how often we’d argue instead of really talking.

Jefferson Fisher, a trial lawyer, shares some amazing advice on how to argue less and communicate more. And let me tell you, this isn’t just about intimate relationships—his tips are pure gold for any relationship!

Editor’s Insight

ā€œShe’s an odd little thing, you’ll never understand her.ā€ Said Mom…about me.

I can’t really argue with her. I do ā€˜odd’ things, but I like to frame my odd as ā€˜brave’. But I’m also aware that when people say, ā€œYou did…….? God that’s brave!ā€ I know what they really mean is YOU did…..? God that’s odd!!

This ties nicely to the fact that I oddly started a newsletter.

In a previous post, I mentioned how I spent much of last year in a funk, a low-grade depression—didn’t even realize how deep it was until I finally snapped out of it. It was August when my season of ā€˜blah’ was over. But then I felt this strong pull to start sharing more positive vibes with other women. After a lot of thinking, I decided the best way to do that was with a newsletter, filled with all the fun, real-talk stuff you’d chat about with friends over coffee or happy hour.

Then oddly named it cynthiagraceLIVING. But Why?

THREE reasons why I choose cynthia:

cynthia is my mother’s name.
cynthia was going to be my little girl’s name but God gave me a ā€˜Josh’ and a ā€˜Sam’.
Cynthia is the Moon Goddess.

What can we learn from Cynthia, the Moon Goddess?

Cynthia, the Moon goddess, teaches us to trust our inner strength, embrace life's cycles, and find power in solitude.

She reminds us to reconnect with nature, own our independence, and honor the wisdom that comes with embracing change.

She's a symbol of power, self-determination and grit. Ok, I took the liberty to add grit, but I think it works. So all things considered, I think cynthia is a pretty darn great role model and goddess. These traits also describe my mom perfectly. ā¤ļø

THREE reasons why I choose grace:

grace was going to be my little girl’s middle name. Nope → Robert and Gerard.
grace - Hail Mary Full Of GRACE is my favorite prayer.
grace - Giving grace to yourself and others is about the best gift you can give.

What can we learn from GRACE?

We can learn to cut ourselves some slack. We need to be little nicer to ourselves and also not be so quick to judge others. GRACE creates space for kindness, understanding, and even mistakes—because we all make them. When you approach your days with grace, it opens up room for growth, stronger connections, more compassion. It’s a simple way to make the world feel a little kinder.

I see grace as being slow to judge and quick to forgive. None of us are perfect.

There are people in the world who wouldn’t know what showing grace to someone means. They talk the talk alright but they don’t walk the walk.

Truth be told, we need more friends, we need more chat, we need more happy and we need more quality living. Hence,

cynthiagraceLIVING - a free, vibrant, inspiring and refreshing newsletter for women was born. šŸ’–

FEATURE SPOTLIGHT

Divorce Corner
Stephanie Knickle

Grace and Grit at it’s finest!

JUST THE FACTS BABY….

  • About 40% of married couples are predicted to divorce before their thirtieth anniversary.

  •  The average age of divorce in 2020 was 48 years.

  •  In 2021, more than one in five (22.7%) couples who live together in Canada were common-law.

No-one ever thinks they’ll end up divorced.

I sure as hell didn’t.

I was 24 when I got married. He was eight years older.  Maybe later in life that difference wouldn’t be a big deal but looking back at that now, it was. I had just stopped dancing on tables at Myron’s and was trying to figure out what my work life was going to look like. Priorities and expectations were different.  And that’s a big deal in marriage.

And based on what I know now (which I would never have known before now because age and wisdom beget age and wisdom), I would adamantly stand in front of any type of altar like one of the King’s Guards at Buckingham Palace to oppose the marriage of one of my 20-something daughters unless they had lived with their betrothed first. 

 Lesson #1 – ALWAYS live with someone first to see if you’re compatible for life.

And hey, I know marriage can be great…I’m not anti-marriage or anti-commitment or anything like that. There are so many admirable couples who just get each other and work hard at it…And it is envy-inducing to see friends and family members who have these wonderful partnerships.

My experience with separation and divorce is that no one really likes talking openly about it. Kind of like mental health, which to me is very much a huge component of separation and divorce!

I was separated in 2013 and officially divorced 10 years later. Lots of tough bitter years and tears, combined with some great times and milestones too.

I had a lot of support from family and friends (and still do) BUT I’ve often thought it would have been great to have had a support group consisting of women who were going through the same experience, the same thoughts and feelings, including how to navigate a new path forward.

So, I’m happy to chat about my experience with separation and divorce, share what I learned, what I wished I knew, including establishing financial independence, making custody decisions (I don’t like using the term battle…), splitting assets, adapting to new holiday traditions, you name it.  And I’m always open for anyone to connect with me on the DM to ask anything they want.

But here’s the thing, it’s not all shitty…my belief is that you can (and will) look back and know it was just a major life-event that actually helped you create a more empowered and life-affirming path for yourself.

I know it was for me.

See you next time.

ā€œTo all those women who have faced divorce, be so proud of yourself for surviving your most difficult moments alone when everyone else assumed you were fine.ā€

Stephanie

Jaden Bulger
PEI’s Newest Fashion Designer

Doesn’t she just make you smile?

Jaden Bulger is an emerging fashion designer hailing from Stratford, PEI.

Having recently graduated from the Fashion Design & Techniques program at George Brown College in Toronto, Ontario, Jaden is already making waves in the fashion industry with her innovative approach and distinctive style.

Jaden recently launched her first ready to wear line under the name The Glam Reaper. The Glam Reaper is offering four purses each inspired by the unique style and personalities of her best friends. The purses range from $30 - $70 and are all designed and hand sewn by her.

You can stay updated with Jaden and make any purchases on instagram under @glamreaperclothing

ā€œI believe life is too short to wear boring clothes.ā€

Do You Know Your Season Color?

One of the hottest trends on social media right now is Seasonal Color Analysis, a system that examines your skin tone, natural eye color, and hair to create the perfect color palette for you.

Did you know that the colors you wear can boost productivity, improve mood, and even change how others perceive you. Good to know! Unlock ā€œThe Power of Colorā€.

Get Cozy ā¤ļø Hallmark Romance
(with a side of cheese….I mean charm šŸ’–)

Santa, I’ve Been Good šŸ˜‡

I’m so PUMPED!!! WATCHES ARE BACK! I know what I’m asking Santa Baby for Christmas this year.

Do you know how insanely beneficial it is jump on a REBOUND TRAMPOLINE? This is the exact one I have and I love it. There are tons of free youtube workouts to follow. So fun. Easy on joints - fantastic benefits for heart, lymphatic flow, and much more šŸ’–

Buttery Soft RUNNING SPORTS BRA! High rating-low price.

I can’t deny the truth- it is expensive but OMG it is delicious. GOOD PROTEIN!!
Best prices of the year are happening right now, up to 40% off. Perfect time to stock up!

LUKASA CANDLE WARMER LAMP is all the rage right now. You get the pleasure of your favorite scented candle without the flame.

I’m dedicated to moving away from cheaper non stick pans in 2025. Our Place offers a non stick, nontoxic CERAMIC FRYING PAN that will have me in the kitchen day and night. Bahaha, who am I kidding? But I will love it.

A stocking stuffer for my adult sons. Nope, not a tiny Rubix cube, you guessed it: MAGNESIUM. Even Santa knows the value of magnesium.

Decorate šŸŽ„ Entertain

ā¤ļø TikTok Candy Cane Caprese Board. Simple, stunning & tasty.

šŸŽ„ Pottery Barn HACKS! Easy Dollar Store Christmas Decor.

ā„ļø Super easy way to hang garland in entryway. 

It’s a Crafty Kinda Christmas

Who doesn’t love to color?

You don’t need to be a kid to enjoy a nice surprise of crayons and paper. I’m gonna try this this year, the adults can color and gab while waiting for din din to be served! Oh what fun ā€¦šŸŽµ

Protein

Dr. Tania Elliot is a Board Certified Internal Medicine Specialist and Allergist turned Instagram influencer. I do get great value from many of her posts. Here’s one for your recipe books!!

More Protein

Have you ever tried Starbucks Egg Bites? They’re delish, but pricey!!

Good news! You don’t need to spend your hard earned $$ to enjoy the tasty high protein treat - make these instead!

Matthew McConaughey’s
Tuna Salad Recipe is ā€˜Alright Alright Alright’

ā€œThis is no run-of-the-mill
tuna salad recipe!ā€

½ cup mayo + more if desired

2 tsp white vinegar

1 tbsp lemon juice

2 tsp wasabi paste

2 tsp Italian dressing

3 tbsp finely chopped red onion

3 tbsp finely chopped dill pickle

1/3 cup diced jalapeno peppers

¼ cup chopped green apple

½ cup fresh corn kernals

½ cup frozen peas

10 oz drained tuna in olive oil

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Are You A Teeth Grinder?

The Christmas hustle and bustle can bring on so much joy AND so much stress!
Mind your teeth šŸ‘€ šŸ¦·

Place sticky notes in various places (computer, mirror, phone, purse, etc) to remind you to relax your jaw muscles and breath deeply with intention throughout the day.

Slightly separate your teeth, place your tongue behind your front upper teeth.
Place your tongue between your teeth for a moment to reset and relax your jaw.

Mindful breathing is a great tool to help relax tense facial muscles.

Your Most Intimate Questions
Answered with Grace & Confidence.

Strength Counselling Services has been carefully crafting an exclusive, sensitive, and informative newsletter to tackle essential and often overlooked sexual questions.

Whether you are navigating marriage, embracing single life, or seeking answers as part of an inclusive community, this edition tackles the tough, often unspoken questions with care and understanding.

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Their dedication and compassion are truly inspiring, and I’m honored to share that cynthiagraceLIVING will be releasing this thoughtful newsletter very soon. 

Affirmation 🌸

I am allowed to move past the things and people who no longer bring positivity to my life.

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Shine with kindness, act with purpose, and remember:
your journey is unique, and your presence makes a difference.

Let your spirit light the way.

Cherish Today.

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